Some decisions feel far more difficult than they seem they should. Often the reason is not indecision. It is hidden complexity.
What appears to be a single question usually contains several questions at once. Career, family, geography, finances, and lifestyle are all interacting, even if only one part is visible at first.
Complexity is often a clue
When a decision refuses to become simple, that usually means more than one dimension matters. The mistake is to force the issue into one narrow frame. The better move is to identify the full set of forces involved and let the decision become clearer through structure rather than speed.
See The Borderless Decision Framework
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